the fuck is wrong with the bear community that I can post about how I’m feeling cruddy with a sinus infection and someone I barely know turns it into an opportunity to awkwardly flirt with me? Like if I said I’d sliced off my finger would someone say “I’ve got a body part you can replace it with” or if I said I was going to turn myself in for murdering a family of four would someone say “if you wanted to murder my gaping beargash I’d plead no contest”?