what are your biggest turn-ons?

Smart dudes with facial hair, between the ages of 22 and 42. Piercings, chubby or beefy muscled bodies. Submissive pups who wear leather collars and beg to be flogged or tied up. Good kissers. Angry queer radicals who can wear makeup and quote Audre Lourde. People who have more emotional depth than me and can keep me grounded.